Tuesday, August 20, 2013

3 Months!

Assalamualaikum,

Now i really feel like writing as this has been a rough couple of days.
Ever since aku anta my 3 month notice..
Yes...Kepada sesiapa yang kerja kena bagi 3 month notice maybe paham kot.

Let's go back over 2 years ago.
I saw this 3 month notice period and i thought to myself, this was a red flag.
But I accepted the job regardless because i really, really wanted to jumpstart my career as a .Net programmer.

Now go back now again, I truly regretted that.
For that particular reason.The 3 month notice.

It was the reason that has been holding me back to look for another job for a year now.
And not unless you are kebaboom type of job candidate, your resume will be looked over just because of that reason.
3 months is a very long time.

It's like a 3 month jail sentence.
In 3 months, you wont' be treated the same way every again by your manager.
In 3 months you can't apply for break like you used to.
In 3 months, you won't get attached to any new project.
In 3 months you feel like you eat gaji buta.
Basically in 3 months the only reason you being retained there is to fill an empty
space until the new guy comes along.
And if I am lucky, i get to trained the new guy and passed on the legacy.
If not, what the reason I'm being there?

I know this is the same issue if you are in notice period.
But one cannot compare of being in a 3 month period.
Even worse, I have to reject a job offer because i couldnt get a deal out of this 3 month notice.

But did i regret posting my 3 month notice?
Not a second of regret.
Not sombong tone one but I feel it is time for me to move on to another things.
That job was one of the best thing that happened in my life.
But the 3 month notice period is the only thing that to sum to a better word - a huge downer.


And did I add with no potential job waiting..
USed to have but had to let go because of this particular thing.
So allow my rant in this post.
Although this 3 months notice has been keeping me to look for another job, It can also be
the blessing that gonna push me to become a better job candidate.
On the next blog posting I will explain how.
Sigh! Thant's Okay. Just live my remaining days here as usual.

Counting the days, 2 months and 17 days to go. Maybe counting the days to my unemployment :(

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Azam Ramadhan 2013

Assalamualaikum and selamat hari puasa ke- 2

Apa nak cite ek..
Pekate sembang pasal puasa tahun ni.

Aku rasa macam nak buh few azam tuk puasa tahun nih. Check em out!

Azam #1 : Puasa 30 hari. Haruslah kan! laki no excuse. Haha

Azam #2: Kurangkan mengular and meneloq ( goyang teloq yek!) kat ofis mahupon umah.

Azam #3: X membazir beli makanan. 30 hari x g Bazaar Ramadan. I think i almost did it last year.

Azam #4: Kawal nafsu makan, seks (ergkk!) or bende2 leka sewaktu dengannya.

Azam #5: Tarawikh penuh 30 malam sampailer ke malam takbir tu.

Azam #6: Nak perbanyakkan tasbih, selawat dan sebagainya. Yang tu mesti semestinya. And hafal doa and surah2 lazim yg lama dok tertangguh tu.

Azam #7: Khatam Quran yg x pernah khatam tu..Huhu.

Azam #8: Nak kurangkan berat badan. Masuk balik daerah 6+ kilo instead of 7+. And nak naikkan balik bisep, chest and abs yg dah mcm karam tenggelam sejak kawen ritu. Huhu

Azam #9: Nak psycho butik siapkan deliver gambor kawen kami sebelom raya. Wajarlah psl kami dah dabel chin pon x siap gik. Penerajangan cap pengantin pencen nak?

Azam #10:  Berbuka at least once kat umah mak, once kat umah abah. And once lovey dovey iftar luar with my lovely sayang. Hajat kalo ikut nak iftar with frens gak tapi saban tahun makin jenuh nak plan :(

Azam #11: Uruskan duit. At most RM10 per day only. Kalo dak that RM10 masuk tabung!

Azam #12: Musim perayaan nih, nak try bake with my wife. One cookie batch or cake. Cam romantik jek. Dah xleh beraktiviti 'batal puasa', eloklah ganti dengan aktiviti bakar kek.Hahah.

Azam #13: Perbersihkan umah mak aku kat keramat. Dah teruk sangat dah. Kesian mak aku kena kongsi umah dengan sarang tikus.Uweek!

Itu ajelah kot. Ingat nak tambah lagi satu. Tak mau menyogo and berjalan secara TAR tapi x sanggup uolls. Bende tu wajib setiap kali bulan puasa at least once. Haha.

Bye2 and selamat menyambut Ramadhan peeps!




Hidupku Lepas Berkahwin ^_^

Assalamualaikum and Selamat Berpuasa Everybody,

Yezza...
Setelah berbulan and bermingguan aku x update blog
Tetibe masuk sini
Tak ke pelik?
Tak pelik pon..Kes masa terluang jek

Sebenarnya banyak bebenor aku nak update kat blog
Tapi kemalasan amatlah menghadkan aku mewarkahkan apa yg terbit di hati ini
Hahah..ayat kenalah x menahan.

Dah kawen ni, banyak bebenor self-discoveries and bende baru yang aku rasa seronok tuk share.
Orang kata kegembiraan wajar di share..
So here i am..
Tapi aku bukan nak share bende2 18SX ye adik2 sekalian..
Yang tu kalo nak tahu lebih lanjut sila jumpa dengan tok kadi di kawasan terdekat anda and sahkan hubungan anda dengan si polan yang disayang..HIKS!

Tapi aku nak share regarding the life i've been living for the last 3,4 months since i got married.

Firstly, may i tell you that i am currently living ngan my in-laws.
We have pretty much the privacy we needed even though we living under the same roof.
Dalam bilik tidor, it's pretty much like our own little 400 sq feet studio apartment.
Got a bathroom to ourselves. TV of our own that comes with ASTRO and DVD set to layan my comedy series.
Cuma tadak dapur jek tp kalo tadak semut dalam bilik, we may even have our own little pantry dalam tu complete with coffee, tea, ayaq panas and paling penting, jajan..HAhA

Tapi dalam privacy tu, i still feel like i'm being watched closely under my in-laws supervision.
Not just mak,pak mertua..Ade duk skalik ngan adik beradik my wife.
Aku terasa perbezaan besar between the life before and after my wedding.Jurang besar!
Kalo sebelom kawen aku leh jd slob..Takdelah pengotor sgt tp takdelah pembersih.
Tapi sekarang kalo jatuh a piece of food on the floor pon rase cam guilty je and toleh kiri kanan hoping no one saw it..Haha
Pastu the fact yg i live with my sister in law sume, wajarlah aku limitkan pendedahan kulit and cutting kain slua aku..HAHA..
short2 dah kurang aku pakai unless dalam bilik ngan wife.
kalo dulu, bapak aku x jemu nasihat suruh aku pakai slua x nampak teloq(eerk!) tapi aku x pernah jemu memakainye(hahah!)
Dalam private2 tu gak kami kena kurangkan berkurung dalam bilik.
Kalo dak kena ngata asek berkurung jek..Hmmm.
Bukanlah niat kami nak berkurung tp asal nak duk living room tv kena conquer dengan drama2 melayu, cerita2 yg aku x hadap tengok.
takkan nak duk depan suruh tv tengok aku lak just semata tuk tunjuk muka..hmm..
Beh baik hadap tv dalam bilik sendiri with the comfort of baring2 atas katil depan tv..Lagi SYIOK!
Kalo dulu if aku teringin makan itu ini aku kasi hasap lah itu dapur asah skill chef aku.
tapi sekarang, jarang bebenor aku masak unless by request and mak mertua tadak umah tuk masak.
Tunjuk ajar wife masak pon x berkesmpatan coz frankly, i'm not the best teacher for her since she already labbelled me as gifted cook rather than self tought.
Can't help that once she feels that way.Plus i cannot tahan my wife's mean streak.Oops! :P
And above it all, the house is quite a far drive to my office.
I'm talking about 1.5-2 hrs drive plus heavy traffic and few ringgit toll.
Even my workmates yg g kenduri aritu kata the house is so damn far and kena lalu 2,3 sekolah pepagi make the ride to work much worse.



Although i am adapting with my new family but somehow i always feel i am an outsider.
Arent we all?
Basically, i feel like a guest in the house i currently live in.
But being with my wife trumps all difficulties i ever feel tu.
She makes me forget about all that as long as she's by my side.
And i truly hope someday aku boleh hidup dalam rumah ni macam rumah aku sendiri.
And treat her parents and sibling macam my own blood.
or better yet, purchase our own place that deserve to be call home :)
More on that will come..

Plus check out our latest picture below. Kekdahnye dedua pipi makin berlapis. Huhu. Org kata makin chubby tandanya berbahagia. Ye kot..Ahaks

Later peeps!

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Post Wedding: Gambar Kawen Sikit

Okay..Now is working hour and yet i dont have anything to work on..
Boss tadak. Kerja ade tapi jenis2 routine and not programming.
So pekata saya share some of the pictures taken during our wedding/ honeymoon 3 bulan lepas...
Kira ni a 3 month celebration coming up few days nanti..
Share kegembiraan dengan kekawan kat blog nih..