Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Pain...What Are You?



What is pain?
There are millions of reason that causes pain.
I for one had been exposed to some kind of pain.
The pain of failure..
The pain of heartbreak.
The pain of  my disease and stuff.
But to me the worst kind of pain is knowing that time is not much left..
Whether it is about your project deadline or even, your death.
It is equally mind numbing pain.
Am i dying? No I am not..
It is just a deadline or limit has been signed to me weather i like it or not.
The limitation from eating this and that.
The limitation of doing this and that.
 to the degree of a time limit set for being normal?
WORST FEELING EVER!


First step in dealing with pain is acceptance.
And the last thing you should do is ignoring the pain or worse, denying it!
Yes. Treat your pain as your own crying baby.
Find what the actual root problem and go from there.
Feed what it wants and stop doing what makes it worse.

Secondly, seek support.
Yes..In dealing with pain one cannot do it alone.
Get help as much as you can get.
Even if it means to vent your anger with the pain.
Although i don't condone that.

Third, get as much 'You gonna be Okay' as you can get.
It's almost the last thing you need to make you feel better when all hopes has faded.
It may not do anything good.
Might be a broken record and hurt to hear after some time.
But in a way, they are praying for you.
Who are we to reject that right?





Fourth, find alternatives or shortcuts that may help with the pain.
It wont forsaken your pain but it add a sense of hopefulness in your mind.
Positive thought does make the pain look easier to deal with other than 24/7 crying for it.

And lastly, pay to Allah for the best.
And start admitting the fact that you are nobody compared to Him.
You are His slave and pain is a KIND reminder from Him and His Gracefulness for your wrongdoings.
Remember, every little bit of pain is His way to let you know, He still has hope on you.
So DON'T YOU EVER GIVE UP ON HIM!
NEVER !!

I for one will never abandon you God.
I will always put You above all the rest.
Forgive me for my sin, O God.
Ya Allah Maha Besar..Ar-Rahman, Ar-Rahim.

And whatever you have of favor - it is from Allah . Then when adversity touches you, to Him you cry for help..” (An-Nahl: 53)

MasyaAllah...Treat your pain as a grace from Him from letting you falling more over to the edge of hellfire.
Remember, you are here for only a short period.

Would it be best to know you are in PAIN for SHORT period rather than NEVER ENDING BURN..?
Nauzubillah....
So take your pain with your head held up high..Insyaallah..Let us all repent.











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